October 26th, 2010
If you are to catch your partner cheating, then there has to be quite a bit of detective work carried out. It’s no good if you just throw accusations at your partner, you need concrete evidence that they’re playing away. There are quite a few things that you can do, I am now going to speak about what options are available to you.
Checking their phone will be one option that will get results, however this is easier said than done. Not only does a cheater always keep their phone by their side, but these days phones are easily password protected. However, if your partners goes into defence mode every time you try and get near their phone or when you ask them who’s texting them, it’s a sign that something’s wrong.
Facebook can also give you clues that your partner is cheating. Take a glance at what their latest profile is, and who has been leaving comments. Also take a look at the photos that they’ve been tagged in and see if they’re getting too close to anyone. There is nothing stopping you from sending an email to this person and asking them why they are with your partner in these pictures.
Look at the history of their Laptop or PC too and see if there are any websites in there that they should not have been on. Another way of telling whether they are up to no good is if every time you walk into the room, they quickly shut their computer off and wont let you look.
Each time your partner goes out, ask them where they are going and remember what they tell you. To find out whether they were telling the truth about where they were going out, then take a loom at what is on their credit card statements. If things don’t match up, it’s conclusive that your partner is up to no good.
If you are someone that has been found to be cheating by your partner and they have consequently left you, then it is time to start praying for forgiveness. There is a lot of information on how to get your ex back which you can look at online, but it is really all down to whether or not your ex can forgive you.
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